It was the best of times when they were neighbors. They dined together --socialized together -- and took their morning walks along the trails together. They were friends because they shared so much in common. They were older and wiser, but in the end to their stories diverged greatly. Though these neighbors were in their 90's, their stories might be a cautionary tale for anyone. Living to 90 or 100 isn't a guarantee.
This is based on a true story. Robert and Pat lived across from Bea in a beautiful suburb where they raised their families side by side. Their longtime friendship began years ago and only ended this year when each passed peacefully away. Robert Jr. and his siblings mourned the passing of their parents and then got around to the emotional task of tying up their parents' finances. As is often the case, the adult children were not privy to their parents' financial situation. They discovered their parents had a reverse mortgage which is not necessarily a big deal. When the signers on a reverse mortgage die, the children can buy the home themselves by paying the loan balance which can be less than market value or they can sell the house and net the difference between the sold price and the loan amount (plus closing costs).
Robert Jr and his siblings enlisted the help of an agent to sell the parents' house, but the kicker came with more financial digging. As they were going through a stack of paperwork, they found some literature and a thank you letter from a Trust Attorney that Robert and Pat had visited. The cost had been circled in pen. Robert Jr called the Attorney only to find out that his parents didn’t follow through. Robert and Pat had only a Will. They did NOT have a Trust. It may have been the cost that kept them from paying the Trust Attorney. This meant that the home and other assets may be subject to PROBATE! They discovered that with the amount of the reverse mortgage that was owed that any proceeds from the sale of the home would go to the courts and attorneys….NOT TO THEM. After some research and calculations, they finally realized that the house would just be given back to the bank. IF there had been a Trust in place, there would have been an inheritance from the sale of the house in this particular case.
Bea's oldest son, on the other hand, had encouraged his mother to get a Trust because he was in real estate and he saw the Robert and Pat story play out with and without reverse mortgages - it was the probate that burned up any potential profit. When Bea passed, it was tough emotionally and it took a while before they could even think about selling her house. But when it came time, the siblings were able to list the house.
THE MORAL OF THE STORY?
A conversation…. An offer to help…and alternate solutions are possible to prevent giving the inheritance to an Attorney or to the State.
In fact, a slight variation of this story happened to a friend on mine. Her Mom had a Trust, but she did not want to pay for an Attorney to put a piece of undeveloped land in Nevada in it. As a result, when her Mother died, it cost my friend much more money, because she had to pay an Attorney in order to put that property in the name of the existing Trust. At least her Mother had a Trust, but this additional cost need not have occurred.
Trusts, even when you have them, must be updated periodically. I’ve heard Attorneys say that you should have both your Trusts and Wills reviewed every 5 years, because your needs may change and/or tax laws may have changed which may impact negatively from when their documents were originally created.
So, what are your options? You can go to a Trust Attorney. I certainly understand that hiring an Attorney to help you with your Estate Planning documents is a higher cost than creating DYI documents….BUT…..the Attorney can give you legal advice. Everyone’s situation and/or personal concerns are different so the advice is what I consider the most valuable part of the equation. I personally have always hired the experts on the important things in life and DYI on the non-important items. Even with an Attorney there are some options. Sometimes your employer may offer a paid legal plan where you pay money out of your paycheck and then have access to an Attorney at a much lower cost than if you were to go directly to an Estate Planning Attorney.
There are online legal companies that have standardized forms for the different states if you prefer to handle this yourself. However, please note that those online resources are NOT LAW FIRMS. They can NOT legally review your Will or Trust for legal accuracy. They can NOT provide legal advice for filling out the documents. They can NOT apply the law to your specific situation and/or concerns. No matter your financial condition, it is still better to have a Trust AND a Will than nothing.
Lastly, it’s NOT just 90-year-old people who need to be protected. Protect your assets!
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